The other day, my sister and I went somewhere together. Sometimes, we do that.
We went into a building and passed by a security guard. He looked over and smiled at us. “You must be mother and daughter, huh?” He kept smiling and continued “You look just alike, you probably get that all the time, huh?”
I smiled, but my mind was racing….. did he just….? did he just ask me if I was her MOTHER?
Looking at my sisters smiling face. No, she wasn’t just smiling. She was laughing.
We continue on, stepping into an elevator. I’m inspecting myself in the reflection. “It’s the sweater…. it’s a total mom sweater….”. I asked one of the people in the elevator, “do I look like I could be her mom?!” He looked confused. “NO!”, I helped him with the correct answer. “I DON’T!”.
Then he smiled knowingly, “you’re sisters huh?”
Clearly….. the first guy may have been completely blind. I don’t even remember him having eyes to be honest.
I give you exhibit A. A recent photo of two SISTERS at a play together…..
And exhibit B: 4 kids in the train at the mall. They all look under 10 to me. No mom-looking people here……
And exhibit C:
Hmmmm, so maybe I do tend to look overall more subdued. More mature in a very young and not mom-ish way. Definitely don’t look like I gave birth to that lady with the chopsticks….
And finally, exhibit D:
Oh, well isn’t that precious. She was my little bitty baby sister….. and I doted on her and probably did pretend to be her mommy back then. Just look at that little face…..
You know what? It’s really ok. I do kind of feel like a mom to her sometimes, I practiced my parenting technique on her before trying it out on my own kids…. thanks to the mistakes I made with my sister, my oldest has turned out pretty awesome.
Oh, I love that little sister of mine. Even if I am going to have to ugly her up a bit before we hang out together next time…. 🙂